Reality


Sometimes we have very unrealistic expectations from people. But the interesting part is that they all seem very legitimate… until our heart is broken.

I have met a lot of different types of people in my life and among those there have been some who are just too cute to ignore. They have this strange innocence in them that attract you and you think they are like angels. You want to take care of them. Somehow you can’t help but smile at their innocent mistakes. You want to be a part of their sunny side. Unfortunately, the truth is that no one is like angels. If humans were like angels, then this world would be a very happy place and no one would have a broken heart.

Last night I cried because of a person I thought would never make me cry. Very idealistic, huh? I don't know why I would think that. Now when I sit down and think about it rationally I realize how unrealistic that is. I mean why could or would she not make me cry? Or why would I think that such circumstances could never arise?
We are but, two humans who can make poor choices and say the wrong words at the wrong time.

It happens sooner or later in any human relation. As I wipe my tears today and move on, I take a valuable lesson with me. Three words: KEEP IT REAL.
Yes, it is as simple as that. Keep everything very REAL. We don't realize it but emotions make everything so very cloudy. I’d make an effort to keep on blowing the fog away.

From my fair share of happiness and sorrows in my twenty living years, I learned that there is no NEVER and FOREVER in life. If there was a 'never' we would not be doing half the things we do today. If there were a 'forever', we would never die.

I would cry no more. My tears are too precious to be wasted on something.... so not REAL.




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