Now

Learning at the cost of others.

A thought. just occurred. the other day, i was getting upset at our tendency of learning things at the cost of other people's happiness and peace of mind.

yesterday i realized people goof up, then feel like shit over their goofups and eventually they got over it and say they learnt from their mistakes.

so its the same thing. just like i learn lessons for myself , sometimes at the cost of other people's happiness, something similar happened with me.

i know the intensity and the intentions in both the cases were completely contradictory.
but i am glad here that if these guys are learning stuff in life at the cost of my emotions its good in a way .. atleast i could be of some good use for them in their life and its high time they learn simple things like this coz i am sure , in the future, in the world they are not gonna get friends like me on whom they can dump all the shit which rests in their mind.

so for their good and sane life ahead. cheers to my pain. cheers to their learning and growth.