"HAPPY BIRTHDAY" .

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY" .

Its a nice feeling wen u know tat some1 likes you,someone thinks about you,someone needs you;but it feels much better wen u know tat someone never ever forgets your birthday."HAPPY BIRTHDAY" .

JULY 30th(The Date I cant forget in my life)

Ma Msg

Happy Birthday, My Love

I'd like to write you today a real
cool message! Different from everything I've
ever written or spoken to you. A message with no mistakes nor one single
drop
of sadness to blur the letters. That, when you read it, your heart beats
faster,
your eyes shine brighter and your lips smile as never before. A simple but
spontaneous
letter, that will make you a little bit happier!

I'd like to fill your "e-mail" with flowers, with stars, with smiles and with
all sorts of meaningful words you deserve. I'd like to put in it all the hearts
that love you unconditionally. Finally, we would have a very intimate party,
to celebrate the happening. I'm being pretentious, I know, but I really want
all this, because I wish you well.

To be original, I didn't buy you a present. The stores never renovate their
stocks and birthday cards never change! Everything is always the same …
so repetitive!
And also because, poor little me, I wouldn't even be able to send it to
you.
So, I decided to give something nobody else can give you, because it cannot
be found in a store, doesn't fit in an envelope and doesn't exist in the
card
selection of the web: my birthday present!

It's the most precious thing I have, because it is a little bit of myself. It's
a little key that opens the safe inside me, where you may find all that is pure,
true, sacred and personal. This little key is not of gold, but has immense value
because it comes wrapped with the earnest desire of seeing you always happy,
without ever being a burden on you. If you wish, you may call it "Friendship"
(or, even more appropriately, "Love")

Let the happiness I wish you today be with you ever and ever! How good it is
that you exist. How nice it is that you're important to me. And how wonderful
it is to be in the list of those you care for. If you didn't exist in my life,
there would be an enormous emptiness inside me, in time and in the world!

I am sure that God himself
endorses, smilingly, all that I have just written down …!

Happy birthday, my love!

Feeling Sick of everything

The other day i told i was happy to the core in the world,guys you know what ...? it turned the other way around the next moment.the happiness which i had was only for few minutes.Happiness in my life has become like an illusion act,i will feel tat there's happiness but wen i get there only then i will know. that there is so much of sadness in it,and i am vigorously searching and hunting for happiness in my life.dono wen i will able to find it.I am all most done.

I DREAM AS EVERYONE DO....! AND I DREAMT A LOT ABOUT MY FUTURE ..
WHAT IF....? OUR DREAM BECOMES someone else' s DESTINY....!
THAT'S WHEN YOU'L FEEL THE REAL PAIN....

Feeling so happy

Something gr8 to the core happened today in my life.And i am feeling so very happy to the core in this world.And there is no words to express it.After 5 n half months only today i felt like m living a life and i am still alive in this world.I pray Allah that this happiness should continue life long.I need nothing much.But i am ok with the feel and that is enough for me.And i will certainly be happy with it.Now i am just wondering what if...! if....? i am gonna get this happiness life long.If its gonna be so i think i will be the happiest person in this world.going forward hoping for the best.Lets c............

Positive and smooth

I am over all the negativity . i know i had it in abundance, but i really am done with it now. for good !

Have'nt blogged for a while cos life was keeping me a little occupied.Past came over and after staying with the memories for sometime,learnt quite a lot for myself too... culturally,spiritually.

Its been ages since shes gone now, and i have started with new things.i should have done it long back.But better late than never.

Life's looking good, materialism and negativity does get on to me at times with the high ambition i am nurturing. but as far as i can deal with it, its good

Have also been thinking in the right direction now,and I am consciously thinking less and learning more.Now that's better isnt it....?

All's good on the other end

As time is passing by,my wounds are also healing.just realized that i always leave a place with a few wounds,but over a period of time,they all heal, for good. hope this one too goes away leaving all the good things there.

I have been thinking of a few one liners to keep myself motivated.just thought of this one
I asked Allah why he did this to me,He said he waned to teach me,cos he loves me:)

All alone

I was trying to figure out things which will make me feel better and easier.now i feel like things are making me feel worse than ever in life.been alone all these days.and i am not keeping well too,not been able to take food properly,lack of drinking water,so much of health issues i have got as of now.life is so mechanical.i am just pushing days.not been able to be creative these days.something r the other is stopping me here and there.i am person who will always be prepared for the next step wen i am involved in any work.And i dream a lot.I am person who will be thinking all the time about my future other than my sleeping hours..But now a days i have started thinking about my future 24/7.i want to do something big in this world and wish to big as well.And that is what my wish is all about.i missed things so much....! in my life.i can even say tat i have even missed my life.but rather telling that i will do my best ...! i want to say tat...! i will give my best in getting things back on the table.Eventually life will turn around fine as well.
one last thing i want to share....
Someone close to My heart has told me that if we focus on something in life,it may be anything.
All we have to do is keep thinking about it all the time in our subconscious mind.And it will get us in reaching our destination.And now i have decided to follow this.and i will certainly do this going forward.If this doesn't works out for me i will for sure have a question and will shoot it to that person wen i get chance..

The Gift of Insults

I just love this story hope everyone will like it.

There once lived a great warrior. Though quite old, he still was able to defeat any challenger. His reputation extended far and wide throughout the land and many students gathered to study under him.

One day an infamous young warrior arrived at the village. He was determined to be the first man to defeat the great master. Along with his strength, he had an uncanny ability to spot and exploit any weakness in an opponent. He would wait for his opponent to make the first move, thus revealing a weakness, and then would strike with merciless force and lightning speed. No one had ever lasted with him in a match beyond the first move.

Much against the advice of his concerned students, the old master gladly accepted the young warrior's challenge. As the two squared off for battle, the young warrior began to hurl insults at the old master. He threw dirt and spit in his face. For hours he verbally assaulted him with every curse and insult known to mankind. But the old warrior merely stood there motionless and calm. Finally, the young warrior exhausted himself. Knowing he was defeated, he left feeling shamed.

Somewhat disappointed that he did not fight the insolent youth, the students gathered around the old master and questioned him. "How could you endure such an indignity? How did you drive him away?"

"If someone comes to give you a gift and you do not receive it," the master replied, "to whom does the gift belong?"

People's reactions to this story:

"The old warrior must have been thick-skinned!!!!!"

"I would hesitate (he who hesitates is lost) to call insults a gift, but this reminds me of child's saying, 'I'm made of rubber, you're made of glue, everything you say bounces off me and sticks to you.'"

"To win without violence is the greatest victory!"

"Reacting to insulting behavior only serves to give the insulting party EXACTLY what they want."

"Perhaps the master did accept the gift. The gift was victory. The master needed only stand there (and take it) to accept his gift."

"If you do not receive someone's gift of insults, you haven't been insulted." "The young whippersnapper obviously fell into his own trap. With the first insult he gave away victory to the old man by displaying his own weakness."

"It's not what happens to you that matters, it's what happens in you."

"This story reminds me of something I read in one of my aikido books. Two old,great masters were preparing to fight in a Kendo match, Japanese swordsmanship. When the match started, neither one moved from their fighting stance. In fact they both stayed exactly still for five minutes until the match was finally called a draw. If they made the first move it would reveal their weaknesses, and they would be defeated. Now that is awesome."

"An insult is like a glass of wine. It only affects you if you accept it."

"This story reminds me of the question, "If a tree falls in the forest, and no one is around to hear it, does it make a noise?" The same question can be asked in this story, paraphrasing "If an insult falls on deaf ears, who is insulted?"

"The older warrior had no other choice but to not move and stand fast. He understood his own limitations and through his years of experience also knew his opponents strengths. He was once a young warrior too."

"If I may be so crude, I'd say that our "infamous young warrior" got his ass kicked."

"This reminds me of my mother's words "If you throw stones into a slushy puddle, it is bound to splash back on you!" We are Indians (from Asia) and boy do we have thousands of such zen stories!!!"

"This is one of the best illustrations of Zen stories because it illustrates a universal principle (read "truth"). The setting for the story is appropriate because its lesson is a two-edged sword: there is the obvious consequence of the elder warrior refusing to accept the younger warrior's "gifts," and also the more subtle but implicit idea that a gift cannot be accepted without quid pro quo. The old warrior also had gifts to bestow -- knowledge of his skill and his weakness. The younger man, because he focused only on weaknesses was blind to the older warrior's proffered "gift," and therefore refused it. So the elder retained his strengths while the younger went away empty-handed."

"It illustrates the universal truth that "whatever you give is what you receive" or "whatever goes around, comes around".

confused...

I have been so confused and upset all these days.and was not knowing were i am heading towards.and not been able to enjoy my weekends and also my life.though i have enough space to breath always feeling so drowned dono y??.i always feel like i am missing something are the other in life.i hate this kind to life.though i know the solution for all this its not going to workout either ways.Cos this world will end if i get tat solution.trying hard to figure out.and giving my best to myself to find out the root cause.And i hope and believe everything should get back to normal sooner.I have lots and loads of plan to implement in life.But at this point not been able to bring up things out of my mind.feel like my potential level is getting down.and i don want to see this happening again in my life.i have learnt a lot of lessons in my life.and i want to tel everyone tat only if we fall we can get up.it might be for anything in life and it applies for everything in life.