Wishes From Ma Friend Indhu..!

Nice to see you happy & gay Mos!!! Lots more to come... loads of happpiness waiting for you ...People say that "time heals all wounds"---Glad tat Now you are out of everything & you have finaly found a way to escape from worthless relationships... I truly believe- that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you... You juz gotta wait for them MoS ,,,, Always Be Happieeee my dear frend. Say Cheeeeezzzz




Wishes from Ma Friend Indhu..!




Indhu you always rock...!

Finally Discovered how to live a happy life.

Finally ....!!!!

Discovered how to live a happy life.

My profession.My passion.

My profession.My passion. 


I am sure that i want to give it a shot. and yes i want to!


So i was wondering. i am going to study MBA. so would i say that MBA is my passion? well,i dont think so


so what is it that i am really passionate about?. no, its not one of those confused moments because i know exactly what i am passionate about. i am passionate about people and i wanna know as many people as possible. i wanna study and learn people. and yes,stay at an arms length from them and be with them at the same time


No, dont get me wrong. i am not a fan of jugding people, but i am a fan of learning people. something i have enjoyed right from the very begining. Be it talking to random ones on the street, or living with the most complicated people at home, i have just enjoyed the process of observing and hence learning people.


Note, its not learning from people. but its learning people. yes. clear now!


And MBA is something which for me comes closest to learning people.Because for me its the people business.


I know the word people buisness would bring a million thoughts to ones mind, but i am not talking about selling any thing or service to people. i am talking about a profession where i connect the minds and the cultures of people. Because in the end, as a core human tendency, everyone wants to know the other person, his life and everything about it.


Thats what i wanna do.....!
Thats what i am passionate about....!!


And MBA was the closest i got to doing that.MBA also happens to be the profession thats gonna let me pursue my dream and give me a canvas for that. so its gonna be this way. the both of us are compromise on a few the things inherent within us, and thats how, eventally things will work out.




I like blogging and morning and am gonna do that more often. the flow of thoughts is so much better.

No Matter what ....!

No Matter what ....!


I will talk to you soon.....!!!!!!

Pengal Endral Anai Kollum Noiy Aanadhe

Ohh Idhu Varai Illadha Unarvidhu
Idhayathai Thundaakum Ninaividhu
Manadhinai Mannodu Pudhaithidum
Pennai Nambadhe


Kadhal Endral Athanaiyum Kanavu
Kanmoodiye Vaazhgindra Unarvu
Pengal Endral Anai Kollum 
Noiy Aanadhe


Aiyyo Indha Ilamaiyin Thodakam
Indre Muttru Pulli
Adhai Sollamal Solli
Nammai Paiythiyam Aakum
Pennai Thedi Tholaiyadhe

Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,

Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
En Nilaavil En Nilaavil
Oru Minsaaral Thaan Thoovutho..
En Kanaavil En Kanaavil
Un Bimba Thugazhgal Inbangal Pozhigayil..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
Oru Mounam Paravum, Siru Kaathal Pozhuthu..
Kizhiyil Vizhaiyum, Mozhiyil Ethuvum, Kavithaiyadi..
Asaiyum Imaiyin, Isayil Ethuvum, Inimaiyadi..
Vin Maarbil Padarum, Un Paarvai Thiravum..
Ithayam Putharil, Sithari Sithari, Vazhivathaen..
Or Uthirum Thuliyil, Uthiram Muzhuthum, Nathirvathu Aaen..
Urugaathey Uyirae, Vilagaathey Manathey
Un Kaathal Vaerai Kaanavendi Vaanam Thaandi
Unakkul Nuzhaintha..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
Pasi Yorum Ithazhum, Pasi Aerum Viralum..
Iratham Uduththu, Irayai Virayum, Naeram Ithu..
Uyirin Murayil, Mayirin Izhayum, Nooram Athu..
Oru Vellai Thiraiyaai, Un Ullam Thiranthaai..
Siruga Siruga, Iravai Thirudum, Naarigayae..
Vidiyum Varayil, Viralum Ithazhum Thoorigaiyae..
Vidiyaane Iravae Mudiyaathey Kanavae,
Nee Innum Konjam Neelakorin Kaathal Kaani Thudikka Thudikka..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
En Nilaavil En Nilaavil
Oru Minsaaral Thaan Thoovutho..
En Kanaavil En Kanaavil
Un Bimba Thugazhgal Inbangal Pozhigayil..




Thank you so much for everything...!

Life has a way of balancing things.

Life has a way of balancing things.


Some times, certain incidents happen that change your life completely. Incidents that will shock you and throw you off balance. Incidents caused by people who would have seemed so innocent, so lovable, so trust-worthy and so dependable when you first met them. At that time, you may have let your guard down and invested a lot of time, priority, love and care on them. You may have sacrificed many things in your life to accommodate them, their requirements and expectations. You may have kept giving money every single time they said they were broke, without keeping count. You may have been there to comfort and console them during all the difficult times in their personal lives. When you yourself are struggling in a challenging career, you may have carried them along on your shoulder while pitching for opportunities. You may have put up with their untoward behaviour in many situations and may have gone through humiliation in front of your family, friends and co-workers. You may have forgiven all their unmentionable heinous actions and mistakes because you valued the relationship more than your own feelings.


And after many years of offering more than anyone in your position can genuinely offer, comes a time when these people unveil their mask and reveal their ungrateful, selfish, true self. Only then, it will dawn on you... that these people have found new resources and 'contributors' for a better life... like 'migratory locusts' which hop onto another feeding ground once they have consumed the previous one. You can do nothing about it. Don't even try. If you do, they will taint you with false accusations and blame that you were responsible for every bad thing. The same people who once worshiped you as a Saviour Angel will demean your worth and dismiss everything you have done for them. But never try to take things into your own hands... cause whatever efforts you take to unmask them, will fail. They will masquerade as a victim and emotionally lie their way out of the mess. The new Saviour Angels that they currently worship will eventually fall for their complete submission and believe whatever they are led to believe. That's nothing new. Heck, the same tactic worked with you before, right?


All that aside, imagine the grief during the DEATH of someone very very close to you... now multiply that five hundred times. That's the grief of BETRAYAL caused by someone very very close to you. The pain is like a knife stab in the heart and another one in your back. It is not easy for you to snap out of it just like that. It will also become extremely difficult for you to trust anyone else. The wound may take several years to heal... maybe never.


Meanwhile the people who manipulated you and betrayed your trust,  may seem to be living a 'happy' life. They will unnaturally gloat and flaunt their newly-found happiness to everyone they know. This may make you wonder 'Is there no justice in this world?... why do people who did good things suffer while deceitful people seem to prosper?'.


Wait.... Because there is no such thing as instant. It always takes time... years even. Like a boomerang, it will come back when they least expect. And when it hits, it hits real hard... and during that time, those people will realize that their suffering is because they once had wronged you the same way.

Ye Maaya Chesave....! Telugu Always Rocks....!

Ye Maaya Chesave....!
Wow wat a Movie ppl....!
Telugu Always Rocks....!
Infact i have started seeing a lot telugu movies.
ButDono y...??? 
Will talk to you soon......!!!!! 

uyir piriyum valiyai ...!

Enakenna aachchu 

varavillai vaai paechchu 

arugil unnai paarththu 

uraindhadhu en moochchu 

paarka paarka aeno salikavillai 

un mugam 

konjam naeram unnaal thudikavillai 

en manam 

enakenna aachchu 

varavillai vaai paechchu 

arugil unnai paarthu 

uraindhadhu en moochu 

ohoooo ohohoho ohoho 

ohooo oho ohoho ohoho 

uyir piriyum valiyai 

naan un pirivil uNargindraen 

vizhigaL sindhum thuLiyil 

naan mella mella karaigindraen 

uyir piriyum valiyai 

naan un pirivil uNargindraen 

vizhigaL sindhum thuLiyil 

naan mella mella karaigindraen 

iruvar mattum vasikkum 

ulagam ondru kandaenae 

aasaigaL ellam adukki 

namakku veedu seidhaynae 

anbai aLLi kotti 

aayuL neeki vaippanay 

nenjil mella keeri 

unnai vaiththu thaippaynay 

oho oho oho oho ohohoo 

oho ohoho oho ohoho

Vizhigalile Vizhigalile .....!

Vizhigalile Vizhigalile 
puthu puthu mayakam yaar thandhaar
Aruginile varugayile
puthu puthu thayakam yaar thandhaar
Unnodu irukkum ponnana nimidam
Ennalum thodardhida nenjam yengum
Vizhigalile ...
Inbathil idhu enna vagai inbamo ..
Inbathil idhu enna vagai inbamo
Nadandhu pogayil parakuthu manadhu
Thunbathil idhu enna vagai thunbamo
nerupil erivathai unaruthu vayathu
idhuvarai ennaku idhupol illai
Irudhaya arayil nadukam
kanavugal annaithum unpol illai
Puthithaai irukuthu enakum
Unnodu irukkum ponnana nimidam
Ennalum thodardhida nenjam yengum
Vizhigalile ...
Sondhathil idhu enna vagai sondhamo
Iraivan thandha varam inaithadhu nenjam
Mothathil idhu enna vagai bandhamo
Idhalgal sollavillai purindhadhu konjam
Idhu enna kanava nijama idharku
yaaaridam ketpen vizhakkam
Idhu enna pagala irava nilavin
Arugil suriyan velicham
Unnodu irukkum ponnana nimidam
Ennalum thodardhida nenjam yengum
Vizhigalile ...
Vizhigalile Vizhigalile 
puthu puthu mayakam yaar thandhaar
Aruginile varugayile
puthu puthu thayakam yaar thandhaar
Unnodu irukkum ponnana nimidam
Ennalum thodardhida nenjam yengum
Vizhigalile ...

Failure is a normal and natural part of achievement.

Failure is a normal and natural part of achievement.
When the failures come, learn from them and then move quickly along.
Failure is not the worst thing that can happen.
The worst thing that can happen is to let the fear of failure
prevent you from ever doing anything.
If your top priority is to avoid all failure, then you will surely fail.
For only by accepting and living with the possibility of failure
can you succeed and achieve.
Failure is not the end of the world. It is merely another step on the
pathway to fulfillment, wisdom and achievement.
Though you would never intentionally set out to fail, when failure
does come the best thing to do is to gracefully accept what has happened.
That will enable you to gain the most positive value from it.
Then you can move right along to the next step,
and soon you'll be a long way past the failure,
filled with more wisdom and experience. Let failure be,
and achievement will surely come.

Your Mirror...!

The World Is Your Mirror

The good you find in others, is in you too.

The faults you find in others, are your faults as well.

After all, to recognize something you must know it.

The possibilities you see in others,

are possible for you as well.

The beauty you see around you, is your beauty.

The world around you is a reflection, a mirror

showing you the person you are.

To change your world, you must change yourself.

See the best in others, and you will be your best.

Give to others, and you will give to yourself.

Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful.

Admire creativity, and you will be creative.

Love, and you will be loved.

Seek to understand, and you will be understood.

Listen, and your voice will be heard.

Teach, and you will learn.

Telugu is always best.But i realised it very late....!

This song is mainly about the sensitive feelings of a girl who loves her that man very deeply. The word "Nuvvu" which is the life of the song means "You" The whole song is composed of the feel the girl has for him.


Nuvvu Nuvvu Nuvve Nuvvu
Nuvvu Nuvvu Nuvvu
Nuvvu Nuvvu Nuvve Nuvvu
Nuvvu Nuvvu Nuvvu
naalone nuvvu
(you are in me…)
naathone nuvvu
(you are with me)
naa chuttu nuvvu
(you are around me..)
nenanthaa nuvvu
(and you are all over me..)
naa pedhavipainaa nuvvu
(you are on my end of my lip...)
naa medda vompuna nuvvu
(you are on the curve of my neck's tip..)
naa gunde midha nuvvu
(you are on my heart's sole)
vollanthaa nuvvu
(and you are everywhere in my body's soul)
buggallo nuvvu moggalle nuvvu muddese nuvvuu
(in my cheeks its you...like a fresh blossoming in)
nidharalo nuvvu podhullo nuvvu
(my sleep its you...like a pleasant morning)
prathi nimusham nuvvuu
(every moment its only you)
naa vayasunu vedhinche vechadanam nuvvu
(you are the warmth troubling my creation)
naa manasuni laalinche challadhanam nuvvu
(you are the chillness comforting my emotion)
paite baruvanipinche pacchidanam nuvvu
(you are the rawness making my saree heave)
baitta padaalanipinche picchidanam nuvvu
(you are the craziness wanting to leave)
naa prathi yuddham nuvvu
(you are my every war,)
naa sainyam nuvvu
(you are my army)
naa priya Shatruvu nuvvu nuvvu
(you are my favourite enemy)
mettani mulle gille toli chinuke nuvvu
(you are the first rain drop which pinches me like a soft thorn)
nacche kashtam nuvvu nuvvu
(you are the incoming difficulty thats never worn.)
naa sigguni dachukone kougilive nuvvu
(you are the embrace which hides me)
naa vanni dochukune korikave nuvvu
(you are the desire which robs me)
munipantito nanu gicche neraanivi nuvvu
(you are the crime which tenderly bites me)
naa nadumunu nadipinche nesthaanivi nuvvu
(you are the friend walking with shoulder around me)
teerani daham nuvvu
(you are the unquenchable passion)
naa mooham nuvvu
(you are my unending infactuation and)
thappani sneham nuvvu nuvvu
(you are the essential emotion...)
thiyani gaayam chese anyaayam nuvvu
(you are the unlawfulness which makes a sweet wound)
ayinaa ishtam nuvvu nuvvu
(and still you are the liked one to which I hound)
maimaripisthu nuvvu
(you mesmerize and)
muripisthunte nuvvu
(you tantalize.)
ne korukune naa maro janma nuvvu
(you are the one i wish to revitalize) (myself)
kaipekkistoo nuvvu kavvisthunte nuvvu
(you seduce and tease to make me tame)
naake theliyani naa kottha peru nuvvu
(you are my new name I dont even know in this game...)
naa andham nuvvu aanandham nuvvu
(you are my beauty and my blissful help)
nenante nuvvu
(and its all you of whatever is referred to as my self)
naa pantam nuvvu
(you are my determination,)
naa sontham nuvvu
(my possesion)
naa antham nuvvu
(and you are my culmination.)

Engeyum Kaadhal

He Ye
Engeyum Kaadhal
Vizhigalil Vandhu Ovvonrum Pesa
Vinkaalai Saaral
Mughathenil Vandhu Sattenru Modha
Kollaadha Paadal
Paravasanthandhu Paadathil Oda
Mudhalvarum Kaadhal
Mannil Munnooru Aandu Vaazhum
Kaadhal Ennum Thene
Kadalalegalil Kaanum Neelam Neeye
Vaane Vanna Meene
Mazheveyil Yena Naangu Kaalam Neeye
Kadar Kareyil Adan Manal Veliyil
Akkaatrodu Kaatraaga
Palakooralgal Pala Pala Veeralgal
Thame Padhivisaidhirukkum
Vidiyalilam Nadu Iravinilum
Idhu Oyaadhe Oyaadhe
Siripinilum Pala Sinangalilum
Miga Kalandhu Kaathirukum
O Paarkaamal Konjam Pesamal
Ponalum Ullam Thaangaadhu Thaangaadh
Kangalthaam Penguthoongaadhe
Engeyum Kaadhal
Vizhigalil Vandhu Ovvonrum Pesa
Vinkaalai Saaral
Mughathenil Vandhu Sattenru Modha
Kollaadha Paadal
Paravasanthandhu Paadathil Oda
Mudhalvarum Kaadhal
Mannil Munnooru Aandu Vaazhum
Adam Pidikkum Idhu Vadamizhukum
Yaar Sonnaalum Ketkaadhe
Tharamarukum Pin Thalaikodukum
Idhu Poorandu Theerthidumae
Mugamdhalayo Udal Neerangalayo
Idhu Paarkaadhe Paarkaadhe
Iru Udalil Oruyirirukka
Adhu Muyanru Paarthidumae
Yaar Yaarai Yengenesitha Nerdhaalum
Ange Poondhotta Mundaagum
Poochendaal Boomi Thindaadum
Engeyum Kaadhal
Vizhigalil Vandhu Ovvonrum Pesa
Vinkaalai Saaral
Mughathenil Vandhu Sattenru Modha
Kollaadha Paadal
Paravasanthandhu Paadathil Oda
Mudhalvarum Kaadhal
Mannil Munnooru Aandu Vaazhum
Kaadhal Ennum Thene
Kadalalegalil Kaanum Neelam Neeye
Vaane Vanna Meene
Mazheveyil Yena Naangu Kaalam Neeye

Thee illai Pugai illai Oru vezhvi seigiraai vizhiyile,

Thee illai Pugai illai Oru vezhvi seigiraai vizhiyile,
Nool illai, Thari illai, Oru kaadhal neigiraai manadhiley..
Poovillai madalillai Pudhu thaenai peigiraai uyiriley..

Ennai unnidam izhakiraen.Irundhum illaiyaai irukkiraen,
Munnum, pinnum, chinnam vaipaen, Chinna chinnadhaai..
Ooohhh...ohhh...Vilaiyaai thandheynae ennai..
Ooohhh...ohhh. Vaangi-kondeyney unnai..
Ooohhh...ohhh... Aadai-kondadho thennai..
Ooohhh...ohhh... Ooohhh...ohhh..ohhhooo

Vegunaalaai kaeteyn,Vizhuthooral potaai,
Uyir-payir pizhaithadhu unnaale ohhh...
Vilagaatha kaiyai thottu..vizhiyora maiyai-thottu,
Uyil-ondru ezhudhidu udhattaaley..

velakkiya kaniyai vizhungiyadhu,
Vizhungiya nenjam pozhungiyadhu..
Idhu oru saachi podhadha,
Kanngal modhadhaa Kaadhal odhadhaa..

Thee illai Pugai illai Oru vezhvi seigiraai vizhiyile,
Nool illai, Thari illai, Oru kaadhal neigiraai manadhiley..
Poovillai madalillai Pudhu thaenai peigiraai uyiriley..
Ennai unnidam izhakiraen,Irundhum illaiyaai irukkiraen,
Munnum, pinnum, chinnam vaipaen, Chinna chinnadhaai..

Oohhh hhhpunal-vaeley veetru,
Pani-vaadai kaatru..
Puzhain-dhadhu namak-koru pudhu paatu..

Kadar-karai naarai koottam..Karaindhinga oorai koottum..
Iruvarum nagarvalam, varam-paarthu..
Sila sila vendra kolidhadikka,
Thodu thodu endru thalir-thodikka,
Enakoru paarvai needhaane,
Ennai eduppaaya unnul olippaaya..

Thee illai Pugai illai Oru vezhvi seigiraai vizhiyile,
Nool illai, Thari illai, Oru kaadhal neigiraai manadhiley..
Poovillai madalillai Pudhu thaenai peigiraai uyiriley..
Ennai unnidam izhakiraen,Irundhum illaiyaai irukkiraen,
Munnum, pinnum, chinnam vaipaen, Chinna chinnadhaai..

Ooohhh...ohhh...Vilaiyaai thandheynae ennai..
Ooohhh...ohhh. Vaangi-kondeyney unnai..
Ooohhh...ohhh... Aadai-kondadho thennai..
Ooohhh...ohhh... Ooohhh...ohhh..ohhhooo

This is the Story of My LIFE....!

Billy Blue: 
Oooh that what it is 


Akon: 
Ehhh ehhhh ehhh 
Konvict music, this is my life 
yeahhh 


akon and blue yeah 
yeahhhhhhh 


CHORUS: 
This is the story of my life 
Shot in the ghetto, born in the belly of the beast, i am a product of these streets, eh-oh 
This is the story of my life 
standing on my toes, doin' what i gotta do to make this cheese, everybody hearin me, eh-oh 
This is the story of my life 
(***** not understood) 
everytime i step out i face 20 years 
this is the story of my life 
if you been goin through this thenn please throw up your (****) highh 
if it's youur life 


Billy Blue: 


I'm coming from the hood 
I live a life of crime 
I know you heard stories, but nothing like mine 
See i was born a G 
mama died without warning me 
all i know is poverty 
slaying drugs and robbery 
mugging like everyday 
im meanest to society 
foul on the side of me 
who got the balls to betray me 
i can't see nothing there 
had a dollar and fifteen cents 
steady hustling dropped outta school 
ain't seen me since 
lived a life of scene 
got a shot, had to breathe again 
my face on the tv and what this little mind gonna need again 
i ain't trying to make a dollar i ain't trying to make it free.....!

Confused ....!

The More I Think....!


The More confused I Get...!

Got to wait.....! 

Happy Womens Day...!

Women

Take care when you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman was made from the rib of man, not the feet to be walked on Not from his head to be superior, but from the side to be equal, under the arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved...!

Happy Womens Day...!

Man realized his mistake

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door. SON:"Daddy, may I ask you a question?" DAD:"Yeah sure, SON:"Daddy, how much do you make an hour?" DAD: angrily replied Rs.100 an hour." SON:"Oh, "Daddy, may I pls borrow Rs.50?" The father was furious, The little boy quietly went to his room . Later man realized his mistake. went to him n asked "why u needed that money?? and gave him the money, the boy added some money & said i have Rs. 100 can i buy yr 1 hour, please come home early tomm i want to have dinner with you.

Hoping For Better India~By Dr. Abdul Kalam

Hoping For Better India~By Dr. Abdul Kalam
Note: this letter was written by Dr. Abdul Kalam

Why is the media here so negative? Why are we in India so embarrassed to recognize our own strengths, our achievements? We are such a great nation. We have so many amazing success stories but we refuse to acknowledge them. Why? We are the first in milk production. We are number one in Remote sensing satellites. We are the second largest producer of wheat. We are the second largest producer of rice. Look at Dr. Sudarshan, he has transferred the tribal village into a self-sustaining, self-driving unit. There are millions of such achievements but our media is only obsessed in the bad news and failures and disasters. I was in Tel Aviv once and I was reading the Israeli newspaper. It was the day after a lot of attacks and bombardments and deaths had taken place. The Hamas had struck. But the front page of the newspaper had the picture of a Jewish gentleman who in five years had transformed his desert into an orchid and a granary. It was this inspiring picture that everyone woke up to. The gory details of killings, bombardments, deaths, were inside in the newspaper, buried among other news. In India we only read about death, sickness, terrorism, crime.. Why are we so NEGATIVE? Another question: Why are we, as a nation so obsessed with foreign things? We want foreign T.Vs, we want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology. Why this obsession with everything imported. Do we not realize that self-respect comes with self- reliance? I was in Hyderabad giving this lecture, when a 14 year old girl asked me for my autograph. I asked her what her goal in life is. She replied: I want to live in a developed India. For her, you and I will have to build this developed India. You must proclaim. India is not an under-developed nation; it is a highly developed nation. YOU says that our government is inefficient. YOU say that our laws are too old. YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage. YOU say that the phones don't work, the railways are a joke. The airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination. YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits. YOU say, say and say. What do YOU do about it?



Take a person on his way to Singapore. Give him a name - 'YOURS'. Give him a face - 'YOURS'. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best. In Singapore you don't throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores. YOU are as proud of their Underground links as they are. You pay $5 (approx. Rs. 60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Peddler Road) between 5 PM and 8 PM. YOU come back to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity... In Singapore you don't say anything, DO YOU? YOU wouldn't dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai . YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah. YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds (Rs.650) a month to, 'see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else. 'YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 km/h) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop, 'Jaanta hai main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so's son. Take your two bucks and get lost.' YOU wouldn't chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New Zealand .Why don't YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo ? Why don't YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston??? We are still talking of the same YOU. YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own. You who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground. If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country, why cannot you be the same here in India ? In America every dog owner has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan .Will the Indian citizen do that here?' He's right. We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility. We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative. We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin. We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms. We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity. This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public. When it comes to burning social issues like those related to women, dowry, girl child! And others, we make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home. Our excuse? 'It's the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons' rights to a dowry.' So who's going to change the system? What does a system consist of? Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbours, other households, other cities, other communities and the government. But definitely not me and YOU. When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr. Clean to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand or we leave the country and run away. Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England . When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system. Our conscience is mortgaged to money. ASK WHAT WE CAN DO FOR INDIA AND DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO MAKE INDIA WHAT AMERICA AND OTHER WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE TODAY Lets do what India needs from us.