Wishes From Ma Friend Indhu..!

Nice to see you happy & gay Mos!!! Lots more to come... loads of happpiness waiting for you ...People say that "time heals all wounds"---Glad tat Now you are out of everything & you have finaly found a way to escape from worthless relationships... I truly believe- that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you... You juz gotta wait for them MoS ,,,, Always Be Happieeee my dear frend. Say Cheeeeezzzz




Wishes from Ma Friend Indhu..!




Indhu you always rock...!

Finally Discovered how to live a happy life.

Finally ....!!!!

Discovered how to live a happy life.

My profession.My passion.

My profession.My passion. 


I am sure that i want to give it a shot. and yes i want to!


So i was wondering. i am going to study MBA. so would i say that MBA is my passion? well,i dont think so


so what is it that i am really passionate about?. no, its not one of those confused moments because i know exactly what i am passionate about. i am passionate about people and i wanna know as many people as possible. i wanna study and learn people. and yes,stay at an arms length from them and be with them at the same time


No, dont get me wrong. i am not a fan of jugding people, but i am a fan of learning people. something i have enjoyed right from the very begining. Be it talking to random ones on the street, or living with the most complicated people at home, i have just enjoyed the process of observing and hence learning people.


Note, its not learning from people. but its learning people. yes. clear now!


And MBA is something which for me comes closest to learning people.Because for me its the people business.


I know the word people buisness would bring a million thoughts to ones mind, but i am not talking about selling any thing or service to people. i am talking about a profession where i connect the minds and the cultures of people. Because in the end, as a core human tendency, everyone wants to know the other person, his life and everything about it.


Thats what i wanna do.....!
Thats what i am passionate about....!!


And MBA was the closest i got to doing that.MBA also happens to be the profession thats gonna let me pursue my dream and give me a canvas for that. so its gonna be this way. the both of us are compromise on a few the things inherent within us, and thats how, eventally things will work out.




I like blogging and morning and am gonna do that more often. the flow of thoughts is so much better.

No Matter what ....!

No Matter what ....!


I will talk to you soon.....!!!!!!

Pengal Endral Anai Kollum Noiy Aanadhe

Ohh Idhu Varai Illadha Unarvidhu
Idhayathai Thundaakum Ninaividhu
Manadhinai Mannodu Pudhaithidum
Pennai Nambadhe


Kadhal Endral Athanaiyum Kanavu
Kanmoodiye Vaazhgindra Unarvu
Pengal Endral Anai Kollum 
Noiy Aanadhe


Aiyyo Indha Ilamaiyin Thodakam
Indre Muttru Pulli
Adhai Sollamal Solli
Nammai Paiythiyam Aakum
Pennai Thedi Tholaiyadhe

Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,

Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
En Nilaavil En Nilaavil
Oru Minsaaral Thaan Thoovutho..
En Kanaavil En Kanaavil
Un Bimba Thugazhgal Inbangal Pozhigayil..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
Oru Mounam Paravum, Siru Kaathal Pozhuthu..
Kizhiyil Vizhaiyum, Mozhiyil Ethuvum, Kavithaiyadi..
Asaiyum Imaiyin, Isayil Ethuvum, Inimaiyadi..
Vin Maarbil Padarum, Un Paarvai Thiravum..
Ithayam Putharil, Sithari Sithari, Vazhivathaen..
Or Uthirum Thuliyil, Uthiram Muzhuthum, Nathirvathu Aaen..
Urugaathey Uyirae, Vilagaathey Manathey
Un Kaathal Vaerai Kaanavendi Vaanam Thaandi
Unakkul Nuzhaintha..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
Pasi Yorum Ithazhum, Pasi Aerum Viralum..
Iratham Uduththu, Irayai Virayum, Naeram Ithu..
Uyirin Murayil, Mayirin Izhayum, Nooram Athu..
Oru Vellai Thiraiyaai, Un Ullam Thiranthaai..
Siruga Siruga, Iravai Thirudum, Naarigayae..
Vidiyum Varayil, Viralum Ithazhum Thoorigaiyae..
Vidiyaane Iravae Mudiyaathey Kanavae,
Nee Innum Konjam Neelakorin Kaathal Kaani Thudikka Thudikka..
Nenjil Nenjil Idho Idho,
Kaathal Kaathal Piranthatho
Konjum Kaatril Mayangiyae
Konjam Maelae Paranthatho
Maalai Vaelai Vaelai Kaattutho
En Oolai Vaanam Jwalai Moottutho..
En Nilaavil En Nilaavil
Oru Minsaaral Thaan Thoovutho..
En Kanaavil En Kanaavil
Un Bimba Thugazhgal Inbangal Pozhigayil..




Thank you so much for everything...!

Life has a way of balancing things.

Life has a way of balancing things.


Some times, certain incidents happen that change your life completely. Incidents that will shock you and throw you off balance. Incidents caused by people who would have seemed so innocent, so lovable, so trust-worthy and so dependable when you first met them. At that time, you may have let your guard down and invested a lot of time, priority, love and care on them. You may have sacrificed many things in your life to accommodate them, their requirements and expectations. You may have kept giving money every single time they said they were broke, without keeping count. You may have been there to comfort and console them during all the difficult times in their personal lives. When you yourself are struggling in a challenging career, you may have carried them along on your shoulder while pitching for opportunities. You may have put up with their untoward behaviour in many situations and may have gone through humiliation in front of your family, friends and co-workers. You may have forgiven all their unmentionable heinous actions and mistakes because you valued the relationship more than your own feelings.


And after many years of offering more than anyone in your position can genuinely offer, comes a time when these people unveil their mask and reveal their ungrateful, selfish, true self. Only then, it will dawn on you... that these people have found new resources and 'contributors' for a better life... like 'migratory locusts' which hop onto another feeding ground once they have consumed the previous one. You can do nothing about it. Don't even try. If you do, they will taint you with false accusations and blame that you were responsible for every bad thing. The same people who once worshiped you as a Saviour Angel will demean your worth and dismiss everything you have done for them. But never try to take things into your own hands... cause whatever efforts you take to unmask them, will fail. They will masquerade as a victim and emotionally lie their way out of the mess. The new Saviour Angels that they currently worship will eventually fall for their complete submission and believe whatever they are led to believe. That's nothing new. Heck, the same tactic worked with you before, right?


All that aside, imagine the grief during the DEATH of someone very very close to you... now multiply that five hundred times. That's the grief of BETRAYAL caused by someone very very close to you. The pain is like a knife stab in the heart and another one in your back. It is not easy for you to snap out of it just like that. It will also become extremely difficult for you to trust anyone else. The wound may take several years to heal... maybe never.


Meanwhile the people who manipulated you and betrayed your trust,  may seem to be living a 'happy' life. They will unnaturally gloat and flaunt their newly-found happiness to everyone they know. This may make you wonder 'Is there no justice in this world?... why do people who did good things suffer while deceitful people seem to prosper?'.


Wait.... Because there is no such thing as instant. It always takes time... years even. Like a boomerang, it will come back when they least expect. And when it hits, it hits real hard... and during that time, those people will realize that their suffering is because they once had wronged you the same way.